Chances are that at least one of your phone sex buddies has already asked you to guide her while she was pleasuring herself to the sound of your voice. At this point, many young and inexperienced guys don’t know what to say, neither how exactly she should touch her own body to trigger a powerful orgasm.

Remember: female sexual pleasure is very different from what you see in porn. A woman’s orgasm doesn’t usually come from being pounded hard by a big dick, but from stimulating the right spots in the right way. Here are our experts’ tips to drive her crazy with pleasure during your next sex chat!

Tell her to touch her own clitoris. You can’t go wrong with this incredible erogenous zone, packed with more than 8.000 nerve endings! It’s almost the double of the ones you have in your penis. Also, remember that many women can’t orgasm without a correct stimulation of this area. So, encourage her to discover it: tell her to brush her fingers all over it.
Guide her to discover the G-spot. This extremely sensitive area is located on the anterior wall of the vagina, more or less 2-3 inches above the entrance. To find it, she can use her fingers: tell her to move them inside her vagina as if she wanted to tell you “come hither”. She’ll want to thank you with the hottest phone sex session of your life!
Don’t forget the nipples! They’re a very underrated erogenous zones, but did you know that some women can orgasm only with a correct breast stimulation? Ask her to brush them very lightly with the tips of her fingers until she feels that they’re hard. At this point, you can tell her to pinch or squeeze them, according to her personal preferences.
Always encourage her to take her time, and to communicate with you if something feels wrong. Remember that women usually take a little more time than men to achieve the peak of sexual pleasure. Also, phone sex should be all about trust: if she feels like she can be honest with you when she doesn’t like something you want her to do, she’ll let go of her inhibitions.