If you have been on a lot of dating sites before, and one thing you may have learned from meeting the occasional person on there is that women get a lot of messages that are not very creative or engaging. A lot of simple one-word messages that basically say “Hello” flood their inboxes.

This takes a lot of patience, sifting through them all and making something out of nothing. There is no benefit to respond, especially when the next sentence is likely something along the lines of “You’re hot” Phone chat for free is the same way. That first time calling should have a little substance to it, take a few minutes to think about some of the things you like to talk about. People even recommend writing them down so you have somewhere to go then the phone sex hot girl distracts you with her smooth voice that is dripping from all the excess sexuality she sends your way.

In addition, think about what you want from the entire chat. If it is to get off to her voice, let her know. If you can provide a few pointers to things you like even better. Want to chat about a few other things? Make sure you have a few ideas of what. Movies that are popular in pop culture are a great start. Her sexuality can be another, depending on who you are speaking with. Each person is different, and finding out that unique quality is great. Callers find that questions like “What is your favorite quality?” can be great. This works with body parts and types of movies as well. Once the conversation is going, there are so many things to talk about.

Sometimes it can move quickly into the sex realm. When this happens, you can be an active part of the conversation as well. Adding your own parts into the conversation can help move it along, but also communicate what you want. If her rubbing her pussy and fingering herself is turning you on, let her know. Into having your earlobe nibbled one, communicate that. Think naughty to start, then get even more so. Want it to end up full on sexy? Make sure she knows that too!