Tone is one of the key components of phone dating as it conveys a message. Go ahead and think about it. A lot of the way we interpret what another person is communicating is by how the words are said. In an in-person conversation, we look at the person’s body language and also use tone and the word choices a person decides upon to understand what is being communicated. There is more than just what is being said sometimes, there is a message or a feeling behind the words. With phone interacting, we only base our knowledge on what we hear as the other senses are not available. That is why tone is so important with phone dating and phone sex.

If you consider some time in the past when you watched a movie and there was a sex scene or romantic moment, consider the actors and actresses tone. Tone is usually second nature to your interpretation of messages as you have heard tone being used and understood what different tones mean your entire life. If you are not sure how to portray a certain kind of message by using tone, one method to start understanding how is to view others and see how they communicate. You can do this by using active listening skills and interpreting what people mean. Another way is to have a conversation with someone over the chat lines about tone. They will likely be able to show you how to use tone by giving you some examples.

The chat lines are always open and you can speak to a single person who resides in your area any time of day or night. When you call the chat lines, you are instantly connected on the phone and you can practice using your tone and even ask for feedback from others to see if they understood your message. There are hundreds of people within the phone dating community, so you can have as many phone buddies as you want!